[post_page_title]Another way to find out [/post_page_title]
Another way to perhaps solve the dilemma would be to simply be patient and wait- and see what the baby looks like when the due date arrives.
If he or she is obviously different looking than you, the topic will be pretty natural to bring up with your partner. And if you see your nose an eyes looking back at you when seeing the baby for the first time, a lot of hurtful accusations will have been avoided.